Refused anything that made a woman feel like a costume. This was her Pisces Moon softening the edges of the world. And her Sagittarius Ascendant giving her the wild courage to go against every rulebook. But what truly moved her design language wasn’t trend — It was destiny.

When I stumbled upon Dior’s Spring/Summer 2021 Haute Couture campaign, it felt like I had just opened a portal. The atmosphere was heavy with meaning. Symbols danced in low light.

This Ralph Lauren campaign, set in Martha’s Vineyard’s historic Oak Bluffs, wasn’t just fashion. It was legacy. It was softness. It was a visual remembrance of Black wealth, community, and generational ease, a reality too often erased from public narratives.

When you start dressing intentionally — aligning your style with your Sun, Rising, Venus, and Mars signs — you don’t just change how you look, you change how you move, how you attract, and how you manifest.

The spirit of rejection cannot live without your permission. It has no power unless you feed it - with fear, with agreement, with your silence.

You tell yourself: This must be it, the love of my life. But here’s the truth: that intensity isn’t always love. Most of the time, it’s your shadow.

Distractions lose their shine. Chaos feels heavier. The games people play become more obvious. Suddenly, you can spot the difference between someone who’s genuinely showing up for you and someone who’s only here for what they can take.

There is a sacred law written not in books, but in blood, in womb, in whisper. And that law is this: a woman is not just a partner, she is a portal. To hurt her is to block the divine.

As a spiritual adviser, I’ve seen firsthand, through countless tarot readings, that what people call “relationship issues” are often signs of deeper energetic warfare.”

Transmutation is the ancient, sacred art of turning one form of energy into another.

I have always believed that music must have a purpose — to heal, to shift consciousness, to awaken something in us. Vibrations and words are not just sound — they are magic, and that is something sacred.

Artists who honor that truth are more than performers. They are earth angels, healers, and messengers. They understand their assignment: to guide us, to remind us, to call us back to ourselves.

This blog is both my reflection today and a continuation of what my dear friend Grace Wong-Si-Kwie wrote for iloveinspiration.nl back in 2018, when APESHT* first shook the culture. Her words captured the urgency of that moment. Mine carry it forward into a divine frequency.

When Gaga says she “blacks out” during performance, what she’s really describing is channeling. In mysticism and performance art, there is a state where the ego dissolves and Spirit takes over.

Being raised in a predominantly Caucasian environment, I didn’t always see myself reflected in the world around me. But I found mirrors in music