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Where Pop Culture Reveals its Soul through the Feminine.
“I Love Inspiration is where Culture becomes Sacred.”
Frequency
The Soul knows the Sound
It was 1984. When Doves Cry poured out of the radio.
I was ten years young. A distorted guitar tore straight through my spine; my ears woke up instantly. A hypnotizing drum sound dropped and knocked on my heart, while the guitar kept shredding, then it cut to a hard halt and went on in the background. An eerie voice let out strange, otherworldly sounds. A synthesizer played an East-Asian sounding melody, and then his low voice slid in: “Dig if you will the picture... of you and I engaged in a kiss.” I became a fan on the intro alone, but his voice sealed it. It was my first eargasm.
She wasn’t just singing lyrics. She was speaking in frequency. She was talking about concepts I had never heard before, but somehow, I recognized them. Not with my mind, with my spirit. I wanted to know more. Who was this wise woman who overstood dimensions? Who moved like she had lived many lives?
I have always believed that music must have a purpose — to heal, to shift consciousness, to awaken something in us. Vibrations and words are not just sound — they are magic, and that is something sacred.
Artists who honor that truth are more than performers. They are earth angels, healers, and messengers. They understand their assignment: to guide us, to remind us, to call us back to ourselves.
This blog is both my reflection today and a continuation of what my dear friend Grace Wong-Si-Kwie wrote for iloveinspiration.nl back in 2018, when APESHT* first shook the culture. Her words captured the urgency of that moment. Mine carry it forward into a divine frequency.
When Gaga says she “blacks out” during performance, what she’s really describing is channeling. In mysticism and performance art, there is a state where the ego dissolves and Spirit takes over.
Bloodlines
The ancestors breathe through us.
Many people reduce Oshun to beauty, seduction, or love rituals. They see gold, honey, sensuality, and softness and stop there. But Oshun has never been a surface goddess. She is depth disguised as ease. When you truly study her, when you feel her energy rather than consume her image, you realize her power runs far deeper than looks.
This is a journey into forgotten herstory. which uncovers how female power was systematically erased and why reclaiming it matters now.
Some beings are not of this world, yet choose to live among us. Cats are one of them. Their presence carries mystery, the kind you don’t explain but feel. They move like smoke and silence, slipping through shadows and slipping back with secrets. One second you look at a cat across the room, you blink once and the cat is on the other side of the room. From ancient temples to modern living rooms, cats have always been more than pets.
Those who seek, find. And the deeper you go, the more you realize it was never just stories. It was energy. It was instruction. It was a book of magic disguised as a book of morals. When you read it with your spirit instead of your eyes, you feel that every verse carries a frequency: to heal, to protect, to manifest, to restore faith.
In my work, I see so many women in pain, not because they lack strength, but because they have forgotten the goddess within. Generations of women before them carried the same wound. Culture, religion, and society confused them about their true role.
This is the story of Black Female Mysticism and how five women opened the ways for us, carving portals into the spiritual landscape through resistance, intuition, and divine trust.
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The Inner Realms
Return to the quiet truth within.
Becoming Her begins when attention turns inward and stays there. It begins when you stop reaching outside yourself for direction, reassurance, or permission, and allow your power to return to its natural place.
But the mask works, especially on the woman who is manifesting a provider, a protector, a man who finally wants to build.
My pulse quickened. The dead old man at my feet… the familiar heat of the sun… The handsome man in a black suit. Something shifted inside me. I knew this place. I knew who he meant. And I remembered our story.
The Gaze:
We become what we dare to see.
A woman becomes a performance that must keep winning, because the moment she stops performing, the room changes temperature. The love feels conditional. The admiration becomes fragile. The relationship begins to feel like an audition where the role is “easy.” What Bogutskaya helps name, without asking for permission, is that many “unlikable” women are simply women who are done paying that price.
The recent documentary produced by 50 Cent didn’t just revisit the rise and fall of a cultural icon. It pulled back a curtain many of us didn’t even realize we were staring at for decades. Watching it, I was reminded of The Wizard of Oz , not because of villains or heroes, but because of illusion. Smoke. Sound.
In Heroes, much of the story revolves around DNA and evolution. The idea is that human beings are coded for more, and one day, those hidden codes “switch on.” For me, watching the show felt like remembering something I already knew. It was as if my own DNA was whispering:
You too have gifts. Pay attention.
The Marvel Universe has always fascinated me, not only for its dazzling visuals or complex characters, but for the deeper truths hidden beneath the action. Every hero’s journey in Marvel is, at its core, a spiritual awakening. Whether it’s Black Panther connecting to his ancestral realm, Wanda Maxim off learning to face the chaos within, or Doctor Strange surrendering to the unknown, these stories speak to something timeless: the remembrance of the supernatural self.
But The Craft isn’t just about witchcraft. It’s about what happens when women remember who they are. When they stop apologizing for their magic. When they realize that pain can be alchemized, that wounds can become portals.
Cameron enters a world where winning comes at a price most of us will never understand. Behind the glamour, the press conferences, the rings and the trophies, there’s an economy of power that demands sacrifice. Literal sacrifice.
Long before I ever held a crystal or walked into the spiritual section of a bookstore, I was watching The Craft on a rainy night, completely captivated by four teenage girls who weren’t just misfits, they were magic. Their power wasn’t metaphorical. It was ancestral. Elemental. Real.
Somewhere between their spells and their shadows, I felt a flicker of something inside me.
Eve’s Bayou (1997), Kasi Lemmons’ haunting Southern Gothic debut, unfolds in a prosperous Creole community in Louisiana during the 1960s.
The Blueprint
Where spiritual strategy meets real-world impact.
“How the last nine years awakened our consciousness and why the next nine will redefine our destiny.” Some chapters of life don’t announce themselves. They simply begin, quietly, like a change in the air you can’t explain but you can feel. 2017 was the start of one of those chapters.
When I first stepped into a management role, I said something that made a colleague raise her eyebrow. She asked how I wanted to approach my new team. I said, “I want to build a happy and healthy team.” Her answer? “Good luck.”
But after more than two decades as an empowerment trainer, I already knew it was possible, because I’ve built my career around living and leading with purpose.
Gratitude creates psychological safety. When people feel seen, they feel safe to speak up, share ideas, and even fail forward. This is where co-leadership grows. Success stops being “mine” or “yours.”It becomes “ours.” Gratitude also makes change easier, turning fear into curiosity and curiosity into innovation.
Numerology tells us that time moves in nine-year cycles. Each year carries its own frequency, its own lessons, its own mirrors. By the end, you are no longer who you were at the beginning. You have lived, you have broken, you have healed, you have grown.
This is where we stand now: the Year of 9. The year of endings, completions, wisdom, and release.
In a culture that equates visibility with power, Sade built her success on the opposite truth: privacy can be the strongest magnet of all.
Some people radiate clarity and light, as if their soul has fully landed in their body. Others look drained, trapped in loops, struggling to hold on, as if life is slipping through their fingers. This is The Big Shift. The transition from 3D to 5D.
Divine Aesthetics
Where beauty and style becomes spiritual.
Walk into any home and you feel something before you see anything. A mood. A vibe. A presence. Your home is a mirror of your identity, your emotional world, your values, and your future. Your home can either anchor you to old versions of yourself… or guide you into the person you are becoming.
Refused anything that made a woman feel like a costume. This was her Pisces Moon softening the edges of the world. And her Sagittarius Ascendant giving her the wild courage to go against every rulebook. But what truly moved her design language wasn’t trend — It was destiny.
When I stumbled upon Dior’s Spring/Summer 2021 Haute Couture campaign, it felt like I had just opened a portal. The atmosphere was heavy with meaning. Symbols danced in low light.
Music is not background noise. Music is a doorway. A song can shift the air in a room and shift the air inside you. It can change the way you breathe. It can soften your shoulders, straighten your spine, and lift your eyes. It can move you from doubt to decision in under three minutes. It can pull you from numbness back into life before the chorus even lands. That is the power of music. It moves you. And what moves you, changes you.